fightingmisogynoir:

onebuttscratcher:

angelxhunter:

“You’re too pretty to be single”
Why is one person’s idea of ideal aestheticism
A basis for a relationship status
And furthermore
What is so goddamn shameful or pathetic about being single anyway
Is confidence and comfort in being by one’s self intimidating to you

“Swearing is unladylike”
Bullshit
Swears are only words
And these words do not negate my intelligence, or passion, or define anything about me as a person or my character
Men are never told not to swear
Swear as much as you fucking want

“Your standards are too high! Just give him a chance”
No
You are invalidating a woman’s right to say no
She doesn’t need to explain herself to anyone
She doesn’t owe anyone anything
Ever
Everyone should have standards for themselves, and not feel like they need to lower them to please anyone
Or be shamed for leading someone on when they know it would never work
Because that happens too

“If you dress like that, boys will get the wrong idea”
What idea might that be?
That women might actually feel beautiful and confident in their own bodies?
Heaven forbid
Because obviously women’s bodies belong to everyone else except themselves

“Don’t frown - someone might be falling in love with your smile!”
Why
Is it my responsibility to always smile no matter how I feel
I am a human being who is allowed to experience pain, or confusion, or sorrow, or boredom
Men are never criticized for having “resting bitch face”

“Short hair makes you look like a boy!”
This is assuming
That there is one certain way for “boys” and “girls” to look
Not so
Some boys have long hair, some girls have short hair, some people who are both or neither also have hair
Hair has no gender
Humans are allowed to look different from each other and express themselves how they like
Gender identity and gender expression are not the same

They aren’t “real” girls because they were born with a penis
Anyone is a girl who says they are a girl
Stop trying to undermine someone’s identity
They know themselves better than you do
Anatomy and identity are different, and sometimes separate
Why are you so obsessed with other people’s genitals anyway

“You’re going to break a lot of hearts one day”
Why would you ever
Ever
Say this to a girl
A young, impressionable girl
Breaking hearts is not a compliment, or a goal
Coming from someone who has broken at least one
From simply being honest and being myself
It is a burden - a guilt that has been (mis)placed on my shoulders since childhood
I never wanted to be labelled a heartbreaker simply for existing

“You don’t want kids? You’ll change your mind one day”
No I won’t
Even if I do, one day, that doesn’t make my opinion right now any less valid or deserving of respect
Stop disbelieving people about their own life choices
Also, having children is not a necessary milestone for a successful or fulfilling life

“Don’t have sex before marriage - boys really want a virginal girl”
Sure they do
And are boys ever held to that same expectation
To stay virgins until marriage?
Because as women are shamed for “impurity,” boys are applauded for “experience”
I love the smell of double standards in the morning

“You shouldn’t wear so much makeup”
The natural look is great
The makeup look is great
The anything you feel like doing or not doing to your own face look is great
Let people do whatever they want to their own bodies
Whatever makes them feel good
Why do you care

“Selfies are just for attention”
Maybe
Maybe not
What’s so wrong about liking attention
What’s so wrong about feeling beautiful and confident in your own skin
And wanting to share that feeling with others
We were taught for so long to hate our bodies
What is so threatening about finally loving them

“Cat-calling is flattering! Learn how to accept a compliment!”
“I like your hair” is a compliment
“You’re a really talented writer” is a compliment
The gross, vulgar things that men shout at women they don’t know on the street
Are not compliments
They are harassment - meant to imply ownership and dominance and even violence
Compliments should not make people fear for their lives walking home
Compliments should not actually get people killed

- angelxhunter (x)

please boost the fuck out of this.

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fr3d-astaire:

undercoverrcaptain:

1: Could you go the rest of your life without smoking a cigarette?

2: Are you single/taken/heartbroken/confused?

3: What if I told you that you were pretty?

4: Ever been told “it’s not you, it’s me”?

5: Are you interested in anyone right now?

6: What are you looking forward to in the next week?

7: Do you want to be single?

8: Did you go out or stay in last night?

9: How late did you stay up last night?

10: Can you recall the last time you realized you liked someone a lot?

11: Last three things you had to drink?

12: Have you pretended to like someone?

13: Have you ever told somebody you loved them and not actually meant it?

14: Honestly, has anyone seen you in your underwear in the past 3 months?

15: Is it hard for you to get over someone?

16: Think back five months ago, were you single?

17: What were you doing at 12:30 this afternoon?

18: Hold hands with anyone this week?

19: Could you go for the rest of your life without drinking alcohol?

20: What would you name your future daughter?

21: Do you miss anyone?

22: Have you kissed three or more people in one night?

23: Did your last kiss take place in/on a bed?

24: Are you good at hiding your feelings?

25: Have you ever cried from being so mad?

26: Who did you last see in person?

27: Are you listening to music right now?

28: What is something you currently want right now?

29: What is the last thing you said out lot?

30: How is your heart lately?

31: Do you wear the hood on your hoodie?

32: Are you wearing socks?

33: What do people call you?

34: Will you talk to the person you like tonight?

35: Are there any stressful situations in your life?

36: Who did you last share a bed with?

37: Did you do something bad today?

38: When was the last time a member of the opposite sex hugged you?

39: Do you get stressed out easily?

40: Will you sing today?

41: Have you ever wanted to tell someone something but didn’t?

42: Who do you go to when you need to talk to someone?

43: Have you ever been taken to the emergency room in an ambulance?

44: What are you listening to right now?

45: What is wrong with you right now?

46: What is on your wrists right now?

47: Where did you get the shirt/sweatshirt you’re wea

48: What do you like better: hot chocolate or hot apple cider?

49: Do you make wishes at 11:11?

50: Are you a good artist?

51: Love really is a beautiful thing huh?

52: Do you miss the way things were six months ago?

53: Ever been on a golf cart?

54: Do you have trust issues?

55: Ever stayed up all night on the phone, with who?

56: Do you own something from Hot Topic?

57: Do you use chap stick?

58: Have you ever slapped someone in the face?

59: Do you have a little sister?

60: Have you ever been to New York?

61: Think of the last person who said I love you, do you think they meant it?

62: Have you hugged someone within the last week?

63: What were you doing at midnight last night?

64: Have you ever regretted kissing someone?

65: Is there one person in your life that can always make you smile?

66: Were your last three kisses from the same person?

67: Have you kissed anyone in the last five days?

68: Would you rather sleep with someone else or alone?

69: Will next Friday be a good one?

YESSSS GO

ask me!!!!

janemba:

I love being in bed clean safe and pretty

estelles-remade:

existing is exhausting and i would love to gracefully dissolve into lots of petals so i could be pretty and never have to deal with the world ever again

kushkissesz:

we-are-born-for-this:

1. Full name
2. Zodiac sign
3. 3 Fears Spiders
4. 3 things I love
5. 4 turns ons
6. 4 turns offs 
7. My best friend 
8. Sexual orientation
9. My best first date
10. How tall am I
11. What do I miss

12. What time were I born

13. Favourite colour Black

14. Do I have a crush

15. Favourite quote

16. Favourite place

17. Favourite food

18. Do I use sarcasm

19. What am I listening to right now

20. First thing I notice in new person

21. Shoe size

22. Eye colour

23. Hair colour

24. Favourite style of clothing

25. Ever done a prank call?

26. What colour of underwear I’m wearing now?

27. Meaning behind my URL

28. Favourite movie

29. Favourite song

30. Favourite band

31. How I feel right now

32. Someone I love

33. My current relationship status

34. My relationship with my parents

35. Favourite holiday

36. Tattoos and piercings?

37. Tattoos and piercing i want

38. The reason I joined Tumblr

39. Do I and my last ex hate each other?

40. Do I ever get “good morning” or “good night ” texts?

41. Have I ever kissed the last person you texted?

42. When did I last hold hands?

43. How long does it take me to get ready in the morning?

44. Have I shaved your legs in the past three days?

45. Where am I right now?

46. If I were drunk & can’t stand, who’s taking care of me?

47. Do I like my music loud or at a reasonable level?

48. Do I live with my Mom and Dad?

49. Am I excited for anything?

50. Do I have someone of the opposite sex I can tell everything to?

51. How often do I wear a fake smile?

52. When was the last time I hugged someone?

53. What if the last person I kissed was kissing someone else right in front of me?

54. Is there anyone I trust even though I should not?

55. What is something I disliked about today?

56. If I could meet anyone on this earth, who would it be?

57. What do I think about most?

58. What’s my strangest talent?

59. Do I have any strange phobias?

60. Do I prefer to be behind the camera or in front of it?
61. What was the last lie I told?

62. Do I prefer talking on the phone or video chatting online?

63. Do I believe in ghosts? How about aliens?

64. Do I believe in magic?
65. Do I believe in luck?

66. What’s the weather like right now?

67. What was the last book I’ve read?

68. Do I like the smell of gasoline?

69. Do I have any nicknames?

70. What was the worst injury I’ve ever had?

71. Do I spend money or save it?

72. Can I touch my nose with a tongue?

73. Is there anything pink in 10 feets from me?

74. Favourite animal?

75. What was I doing last night at 12 AM?

76. What do I think is Satan’s last name is?

77. What’s a song that always makes me happy when I hear it?

78. How can you win my heart?

79. What would I want to be written on my tombstone?

80. What is my favourite word

81. My top 5 blogs on tumblr

82. If the whole world were listening to me right now, what would I say?

83. Do I have any relatives in jail?

84. I accidentally eat some radioactive vegetables. They were good, and what’s even cooler is that they endow me with the super-power of my choice! What is that power?

85. What would be a question I’d be afraid to tell the truth on?

86. What is my current desktop picture?

87. Had sex?

88. Bought condoms?

89. Gotten pregnant?

90. Failed a class?

91. Kissed a boy?

92. Kissed a girl?

93. Have I ever kissed somebody in the rain?

94. Had job?

95. Left the house without my wallet?

96. Bullied someone on the internet?

97. Had sex in public?

98. Played on a sports team?

99. Smoked weed?

100. Did drugs?

101. Smoked cigarettes?

102. Drank alcohol?

103. Am I a vegetarian/vegan?

104. Been overweight?

105. Been underweight?

106. Been to a wedding?

107. Been on the computer for 5 hours straight?

108. Watched TV for 5 hours straight?

109. Been outside my home country?

110. Gotten my heart broken?

111. Been to a professional sports game?

112. Broken a bone?

113. Cut myself?

114. Been to prom?

115. Been in airplane?

116. Fly by helicopter?

117. What concerts have I been to?

118. Had a crush on someone of the same sex?

119. Learned another language?

120. Wore make up?

121. Lost my virginity before I was 18?

122.  Had oral sex?

123. Dyed my hair?

124. Voted in a presidential election?

125. Rode in an ambulance?

126. Had a surgery?

127. Met someone famous?

128. Stalked someone on a social network?

129. Peed outside?

130. Been fishing?

131. Helped with charity?

132. Been rejected by a crush?

133. Broken a mirror?

134. What do I want for birthday?

135. How many kids do I want and what will be their names?

136. Was I named after anyone?

137. Do I like my handwriting?

138. What was my favourite toy as a child? 
139. Favourite Tv Show?

140. Where do I want to live when older?

141. Play any musical instrument?

142. One of my scars, how did I get it?

143. Favourite pizza toping?

144. Am I afraid of the dark?

145. Am I afraid of heights?

146. Have I ever got caught sneaking out or doing anything bad?

147. Have I ever tried my hardest and then gotten disappointed in the end?
148. What I’m really bad at

149. What my greatest achievements are

150. The meanest thing somebody has ever said to me

151. What I’d do if I won in a lottery

152. What do I like about myself

153. My closest Tumblr friend

154. Something I fantasise about my ex

PLEASE SEND NUMBERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!